Should I raise my child bilingually after divorcing my husband?

Friday, August 12, 2022

Should I raise my child bilingually after divorcing my husband?

When there is a will, there is a way, and even when the will is somewhat lacking, there is still a way to overcome the bilingualism challenge. Remember, knowing more than one language has many advantages, including cognitive benefits, cultural understanding benefits, and, for Latinos, the ability to connect with a part of their heritage in the future.

Divorce is also common and can negatively affect raising a bilingual child. Upon divorce, a mother might wonder if her plans to teach her child the language went out the window (along with her marriage) when her husband is gone.

Parents may want to consider bilingualism even when things aren't going smoothly (due to moves, lost jobs, sick parents, or the birth of another child). Raising a bilingual child doesn't require expensive resources. Mamaestra has one expense and you have material for a year. We encourage talking to your child daily using our material, sharing experiences in our local circle times and asking for their input is the most important thing you can do for them.

Even if a parent has ambivalent feelings about a particular language (associated with a now less-than-beloved ex-spouse), he or she should still consider the child's perspective and needs. The child may want to stay in touch with the parent who does not have custody even if the parent does not want to see their ex again. In some cases, periodic contact may be required by the court. It may be best to keep the child's ability to communicate in the other parent's language.

Take a deep breath and remember that language learning is a lifelong process. It is not a total disaster to take a short break. It may take some time for you and your children to adjust to new routines, but new routines can be a good thing.

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