Should we stop speaking Spanish to our toddler, who has a speech delay, and switch to English to help him communicate better?

 

Should we stop speaking Spanish to our child, who has a speech delay, and switch to English to help him communicate better?

It’s understandable to feel worried, but please know you’re not failing as a parent. Many children develop expressive language at different rates, and speech delays can happen for a variety of reasons unrelated to bilingualism. Research consistently shows that raising children bilingually does not cause speech delays or confusion. In fact, bilingualism can offer cognitive, social, and cultural benefits over time. You are not "going wrong" by speaking Spanish to your son. If Spanish feels natural for you, it’s important to continue using it—it’s how you connect and bond with him. Here’s why it’s okay to stay the course: Speech Development in Any Language: A child’s ability to learn words and communicate isn’t dependent on the language spoken but on the opportunities for interaction and exposure. Language Models: The quality of language exposure is more important than the quantity. Speak in the language you are most comfortable with because this will allow you to provide the richest input. Professional Guidance: The speech therapist did not suggest stopping Spanish, which is a good sign that bilingualism isn’t seen as the root cause of the delay. Follow her tips consistently, regardless of the language you’re speaking. Tips to Support Communication While Sticking to Spanish: Use short, simple phrases and repeat them often. For example, say, “Mira el perro. El perro está saltando. Salta, salta el perro.” Pair words with gestures, pointing, or signing to reinforce meaning. Read books in Spanish with lots of pictures, naming each object or action. Narrate your day: Talk to your son about what you’re doing (e.g., “Ahora vamos a comer. Aquí está tu plato. Vamos a cortar la manzana.”). Encourage imitation: Make animal sounds or play games like peek-a-boo while using simple words like “¡Cucu! Aquí estoy.” Follow the therapist’s strategies in Spanish. If they’re effective in English, they’ll work in Spanish too! It’s also worth sharing your concerns with the speech therapist, especially regarding bilingualism. They can give you additional reassurance and guidance. Stick with Spanish if it feels right for your family—your son is on his own unique timeline, and bilingualism will remain a gift for his future. ❤️ Start 2025 with us! Here’s my gift to you: Free Music for Babies 🎶 Playlist for Babies Free Music for Kids 3+ 🎵 Playlist for Kids Free Coaching & Consultation 🗓 Schedule Here 📖 Understand Your Level For Teachers: Learn how to integrate my materials into your classroom with a free consultation. The Mamaestra Toolbox is designed to last years and can be shared with others! Our philosophy is rooted in the 4 Cs: Creer: Believe in the process. Crear: Create time and spaces for learning. Criar: Raise global citizens who speak at least two languages. Crecer: Grow together, both neurologically and emotionally, through language and connection. Let’s work together to create a brighter, bilingual future for your family. Join My Tribe: 👥 Facebook Group 📸 Instagram 🎥 TikTok Be part of our Whatsapp Group Be part of our FACEBOOK Group There are courses for other children.  Spanish tutoring - Spanish Classes - Spanish reading